Louisa Onome. Author of Pride and Joy
Q&A with Louisa Onome
1. Congratulations on the West African Publication of your novel Pride and Joy. What are your hopes for the reception of the novel on the African continent?
Louisa Onome: Thank you! It’s a huge honour to have Pride And Joy published in West Africa, and my hope is that the story is able to connect with readers who see themselves in the pages. Also, I hope even amidst the tears in this one, you find moments to smile as well.
2. The phrase ‘Pride and Joy,’ is normally employed to express admiration and appreciation. Given the plot, did you choose this title to throw readers off?
A little bit, yes! It was nice having a phrase that was so familiar to people as the title, but I also loved that there can be multiple meanings to this one. I’ll let everyone decide what they feel the title means to them!
3. In the novel, a cow plays an important role in moving the story forward. Why did you choose a cow?
It was sort of arbitrary, but I was thinking about the area that the Okafor’s party was held in, and there’s so much farmland around. You can drive for a while before you see a house — but you will likely see fields of cows, sheep, or even horses. The idea of a runaway cow was so funny to me, which is why I settled on that animal.
4. The live streaming of Mama Mary’s anticipated resurrection results in the public embarrassment and the exposure of family secrets. Can you expand on your thoughts on exploiting private family moments with the aim of gaining sympathy or validation from the public?
I know it sounds hypocritical, especially with the scenes in my book, but I’m definitely against this kind of exploitation. Family matters are always complicated, and to have that on full display for the sake of sympathy or validation feels… icky. It’s never a good thing, in my opinion, because we all need time to ourselves to process and think about difficult things. There are some things the public shouldn’t have access to.
5. Joy feels inadequate due to her dislocation from her Nigerian roots and the loss of a close family member. As a writer who resides outside Nigeria, what are some of the ways in which you nurture your cultural link/ties to your country of origin?
I feel very fortunate to have grown up inside and around a Nigerian community here in Toronto, and to have visited my dad’s town in Delta State, but the main way I maintain my cultural ties is through food. Food is culture, the same way language or mannerisms are, and so cooking and maintaining my knowledge of traditional Nigerian food is important to me.
6. Aunty Nancy is the definition of ‘delulu’. A lot of people give in to delusions to make sense of their lives and assert control. Is the acceptance of fanatical beliefs making it more difficult to distinguish between religious fervour and mental illness?
This is such a good question! I hadn’t given it much thought, but I do think it’s interesting how fanaticism tends to be more acceptable if it’s seen through the eyes of religious fervour. That’s likely the truth in Aunty Nancy’s case. If anyone else had said they’d received a premonition in broad daylight, it wouldn’t be looked upon too kindly — but under the guise of a religious prophecy, it’s completely fine, right? I don’t think anybody would dare refer to it as stress-related mental illness, though there’s always a chance it could be.
7. At the infamous resurrection vigil, Aunty Nancy first invites Pastor Lazarus and then she welcomes Jaja, a traditional spiritualist. Is syncretism common in typical Nigerian households?
In some ways, it feels common and in other ways, it doesn’t. I know for me, the understanding of cultural or native traditions was always there, because my parents found it important to teach us. I personally love that a whole lot about my culture because it reaffirms that spirituality is culture (once again, the same way food, language, or mannerisms are), and it’s embedded in us, no matter our religious affiliation.
8. Nnenna, the self-proclaimed First Lady of the New Apostles in Pentecostal Glory African Church is constantly put down by her husband. Yet it’s difficult to sympathise because she is judgemental and deliberately provocative. Is she this way because she has not excavated her personal traumas?
Definitely. I have a lot of empathy for Nnenna and the Nnennas of the world, and it goes back to that old adage, “Hurt people hurt people”. The same can absolutely be said about her husband, but in her case, she has been belittled so much that she’s unaware what it’s done to her. I think it’s important for every single person to take time and evaluate our behaviours, thoughts, and judgments. We may find that what we judge in others is exactly the sort of thing we wish we could be seen for.
9. In your novel you employ humour masterfully. Was this to temper the intensity of the story or are you naturally funny?
Thank you! Partially, yes — but I think it’s mostly because I tend to look at everything with a hint of unseriousness. What do people say — “if you don’t laugh, you’ll cry”? I think crying is just fine and, if I’m being honest, I cry fairly often, but I love to laugh and that mindset has sort of helped me see everything with more levity.
10. Are you working on anything new, what should we expect from you in the near future?
I have a graphic novel for young adults called Revenge Arc that will be out in 2027! I’m really excited about that one and am excited for readers to check it out.